Harrison Butker’s commencement speech at Benedictine College sparked outrage and debate online. Here’s a breakdown of the most controversial comments he made.
1. Pride Month
Butker referred to Pride Month in a way many found offensive, suggesting it promotes a “deadly sin” and advocating for a “God-centered pride” instead. This approach alienated LGBTQ+ individuals and their allies.
“I am certain the reporters at the AP could not have imagined that their attempt to rebuke and embarrass places and people like those here at Benedictine wouldn’t met with anger. But instead met with excitement and pride, not the deadly sin sort of ‘pride’ that has an entire month dedicated to it.“
2. Traditional Gender Roles
He specifically addressed female graduates, implying their career aspirations might have been misled. He suggested their primary focus should be on family life, a viewpoint many saw as outdated and dismissive of women’s ambitions.
“Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.”
“As men, we set the tone of the culture. When that is absent, disorder, dysfunction, and chaos set in. This absence of men in the home is what plays a large role in the violence we see all around the nation.
3. Women’s Achievements
By suggesting women were lied to about career aspirations, Butker diminished the hard work and dedication of countless successful women in various fields.
“I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say that her life truly started when she began living her vocation as a wife and as a mother. I am on this stage today and able to be the man that I am because I have a wife who leans into her vocation.
I’m beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me but it cannot be overstated that all of my success is made possible because a girl I met in band class back in middle school would convert to the faith and become my wife and embrace one of the most important titles of all, homemaker.“
4. Social Issues
Butker used the platform to express his views against abortion rights and same-sex marriage, which are hot-button topics in American society. This injected his personal beliefs into a celebratory occasion meant for all graduates.
“Let’s be honest, there is nothing good about playing God with having children whether that be your ideal number or the perfect time to conceive. No matter how you spin it, there is nothing natural about Catholic birth control.”
Potential Influence on Young Audiences
A commencement speech is a moment of inspiration and guidance for graduating students. Butker’s message, focusing on limitations rather than possibilities, could have discouraged some graduates.
Butker’s speech sparked criticism from fans, athletes, and media outlets. Many condemned his views on social issues and gender roles, while others defended his right to free speech. The controversy overshadowed what should have been a celebratory occasion for graduates.
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